The division between sexuality and Eros, whish is
so characteristic for the period of maturing, is but a
transitional state. Gender in a human being is lying deeper than just his/her
physical cover; it is an inalienable quality of his/her nature. Sexual maturing
only temporarily polarizes physical and mental desires. This polarization and
divergence of sexuality and Eros belongs to a transitional stage and requests
the restoration of an initial wholeness. Therefore gender can only find its
real expression in marital life. Outside of marriage a normal expression of
gender is impossible.
Satisfaction of sexual desires outside of the
inspiration that is given in love and completed in marriage is a violation of
the law of wholeness, which is inherent to our nature. Naturally, marriage can
lead to new difficulties. But if we are looking for a solution for the problems
that arise out of the depths of gender, we have to admit that it is not to be
found outside of marriage.
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