Sarah, the wife of Abraham, died when she was 127. Abraham
himself began to grow weak and decided to find a wife for his son Isaac, not a
Canaanite, but a maiden of his own kindred. Isaac was then forty years old.
Abraham called his oldest servant, Eleazar, and
said to him, "Swear by the Lord, the God of Heaven and earth, that thou
shalt not take a wife unto my son from among the daughters of the Canaanites
among whom I dwell, but thou shalt go unto my country, and to my kindred, and
take a wife unto my son Isaac."
Eleazar gave the oath and immediately set out on
his way. There was then the custom that the bridegroom gave the parents gifts
for the bride; the more wealthy the bride, the more precious the gifts or
Eleazar took with him, as gifts, many expensive
items and ten camels, and set out for Mesopotamia, to the city
of Haran, where Nachor, Abrahamís brother, was living.
Approaching the city, Eleazar stopped at a well.
It was approaching evening, the time when the women usually came to draw water.
Eleazar began to pray to God. He said, "O Lord God of my master Abraham, I
pray Thee, send me good speed this day, and show kindness unto my master
Abraham. Behold, I stand here by the well of water, and the daughters of the
men of the city come out to draw water. And let it come to pass, that the maiden
to whom I shall say, ĎLet down thy pitcher, I pray thee that I may drinkí and
she shall say, ĎDrink, and I will give thy camels drink also:í let the same be
she that thou hast appointed for Thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know
that Thou hast showed kindness unto my master."
Eleazar had just finished the prayer when a
beautiful maiden with a pitcher on her shoulders came to the well, drew water,
and started back. Eleazar ran to her and said, "Let me, I pray thee, drink
a little water of thy pitcher."
The maiden said, "Drink, my lord." And
right away she lowered the pitcher from her shoulder, and gave him to drink.
When Eleazar had drunk, the maiden said, "I will draw water for thy camels
also, until they have done drinking." She straightway poured the water
from her pitcher into the trough and ran again to the well to draw water, and
drew water for all his camels. Eleazar watched her in silence and amazement.
When the camels stopped drinking, Eleazar took a
golden ring and two bracelets for her arms, and gave them to her and asked her,
"Whose daughter art thou? Tell me, I pray thee: is there room in thy
fatherís house for us to lodge in?"
This maiden was named Rebecca. She
answered, "I am the daughter of Bathuel, the son of Nahor. We have both
straw and provender enough, and room to lodge in." Eleazar knelt down and
gave thanks to God that He had heard his prayer.
Rebecca ran to the house and told all of this to
her mother and all in the house. Rebecca had a brother, Laban. He immediately
ran to the well and said to Eleazar, "Come in, thou blessed of the Lord:
wherefore standest thou without? For I have prepared the house and room for the
Eleazar entered the house. Laban unsaddled the
camels, gave them straw and fodder. Right away they brought water to wash the
feet of Eleazar and the men who were with him and offered them food.
Eleazar said, "I will not eat until I explain
my business...I am Abrahamís servant." Eleazar told in detail why he had
come and how, at his prayer, the Lord granted a sign concerning Rebecca. When
he had told everything, he asked, "Now, if ye will deal kindly and truly
with my master, tell me; and if not, tell me."
Laban and Bathuel answered, "This is a doing
of the Lord. We cannot contradict thee. Behold, Rebecca is before thee. Take
her and go, and let her be thy masterís sonís wife, as the Lord hath
When Eleazar heard such words, he bowed down to
the earth before the Lord with thanksgiving. Then he took the gold and silver
items and clothing, and gave them to the bride, her brother, and mother.
On the next day, Eleazar asked that they let them
go home. But the brother and mother of Rebecca began to persuade him to remain
at least ten days. But Eleazar answered, "Hinder me not, for the Lord hath
prospered my way."
Then the parents called Rebecca and asked her,
"Wilt thou go with this man?"
Rebecca said, "I will go."
Then her parents blessed her and let her go. When
Eleazar, with Rebecca and his men, approached the tents of Abraham on their
camels, Isaac met them. Rebecca became the wife of Isaac. Love for Rebecca
consoled Isaac in his mourning for the death of his mother, Sarah.
Genesis, chaps. 23, 24.
The marriage of Isaac is an example for all
generations. How often young people go astray in this very important question
in their life, upon entering into marriage. Some look for wealth, others for
physical beauty, others for a good family, and so on.
Only rarely do they look for wisdom and a meek
and good heart, that is, internal, spiritual beauty. The former qualities
are temporary and pass away, but the latter, internal qualities are constant
and do not depend on external circumstances.
An improper attitude towards marriage comes from
the fact that people want to make their own happiness, without God, according
to their own egotistical fancies.
Christian men and women who wish to enter into
marriage must fervently pray that the Lord, the Seer of hearts, will Himself,
according to His will, arrange their marriage and bless them with His Grace.
Without Godís blessing no one can find happiness, good order in married life,
and a truly Christian family.
A good Christian family is a bulwark for good
morals, the soil for the planting of good in mankind, the tool and means for
the furthering of the holy Church of Christ and confirming it upon the earth.
The family is also the foundation of the nation,
as Philaret, Metropolitan of Moscow, wrote, "In the family lie the seeds
of everything that later sprouts and grows into the greater family which is
called the nation."
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